Welcome to week six, the final week of How to Create a Decorating Plan.  This week, we’ll cover Step 6 – Styling and Pulling it Together.  You can have a great selection of furniture and decor, but you need to take some time to style it properly to really finish off your room and pull everything together.  Here are my tips to create magazine worthing styling in your room.

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Lesson 1: The Secrets of Styling

Stylists will have you believe that styling is a true art.  Although there is an art to styling, there are also simple styling recipes you can follow that will really help you style and finish of your room.  Before we get into the styling secrets, let’s learn a couple more principles of decorating.


The principle of balance is achieved when you arrange your elements (decor pieces) so they have equal visual weight either side of a central axis to achieve a visual balance.

Balance can be achieved by three popular ways:

Symmetrical – a space is divided into two equal halves and both the halves have equal visual weight to give a calm feel to the space. The elements on one side a re usually a mirror image to the elements on the other side.

Asymmetrical – with asymmetric balance both sides have equal weight but they are not symmetrical.  You use different elements on both sides.  You may use a different number, size or shape of elements, but the overall visual weight of both sides is in balance. Asymmetrical balance is a little harder to achieve than symmetrical, but it can look more natural.

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Radial balance involves a central piece (like a ginger jar lamp on a round table) from which all other elements seem to radiate to arrange themselves around in circular symmetry.

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Rhythm or Repetition

The principle of Rhythm is essentially the flow or movement. The way your eyes move around the room is essential to maintain a visual tempo between elements that have different visual weights. When you repeat elements in an orderly fashion and the spaces between them create a sense of rhythm.  

Repetition refers to the repeated use of the design elements like colour, texture and pattern.  By repeating our design within a room, we join the elements together.  To understand the concept of repetition more, read Styling Secret Number 2

Choose a Colour or Theme

Choosing a common colour scheme or theme will help connect your home decor so it form a pleasing collection.

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To learn more about choosing a colour or theme in your styling, read Styling Secret Number 3


When you arrange items together, add some contrast in size, shape or colour to stop it all blending in to each other.

Decorating in Clusters

When you are displaying your home decor objects to form a setting or vignette, it can help to create small clusters of pieces that can either stand alone or be combined to form larger displays.

I will often decorate in two’s.  It can be a pair of the same object, or the one bigger one smaller arrangement.  Sometimes I’ll add a third object to a group of 2 just to break it up.


How to display photo frames styling tip

Two photo frames – one bigger, one smaller, and a small candle.  The small round candle contrasts the straight lines of the books and frames.

How to display photo frames styling tip

In this sideboard display I have 2 photo frames – one bigger, one smaller, the books plus a topper styling recipe on the right and a central asymmetrical arrangement based on a blue and white colour theme.

Styling Tips & Recipes

Here are some How To Style recipes that you can use when styling your room:

How to display photo frames styling tip

Lesson 2: Install Day the Slow Way

If you employ an interior designer and hand over wads of cash, they will have an install day where they magically transform your home in one day – new furniture, furnishings all laid out and styled perfectly.

Classic Ensuite Reveal

When you decorate your home for yourself, your install day is often a continual work-in-progress.  It’s only when you look back to where you started that you appreciate how much you’ve achieved.  You can watch the video about My Decorating Journey to see how different my first home was!

Here’s how to do your own install day (or weeks!)

Furniture Layout

Arrange your furniture according to your furniture layout in your decorating plan.

  • Follow your plan
  • Tweak it – move things around slightly until it looks just right.
  • Make sure it works for you and there is a good flow in the room


Lay your rug out.  Use a rug underlay to hold the rug in place.  If your rug has creases in it, lightly steam it or place moderately heavy items on the creases to flatten them out.  If your using your rug in the living room, arrange the rug as either a coffee table rug, anchor rug, or extended rug.   If you are placing the rug under a bed read this guide.

how to choose the right rug

Artwork & Mirrors

Work out where you will hang your artwork and mirrors.  Often you will want the artwork to be a primary or secondary focal point of the room.

Window Treatments

Usually you will have your curtains, blinds or shutters professionally installed.  If you are installing curtain rods yourself, make sure you read 4 Curtain Mistakes to Avoid.

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Cushions & Throws

Cushions are one of the most fun parts of decorating as they add colour, pattern and personality to the room.

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Cushion & Throw Styling Tips

Decorator Accessories

Decorator accessories are on of the key ingredients for styling and creating vignettes.

Tier Fruit Bowl

Here are some styling tips and tricks for using decorator accessories:

Flowers & Foliage

Whether you use fresh flowers and indoor plants, artificial flowers and greenery or you forage your local neighbourhood, styling with flowers and foliage is a MUST.

book toppers blue and white orchid

How to Arrange Flowers in Your Home:


Lighting should always be installed by a qualified electrician, but you can easily add lamps to your decor scheme.

Hi Lo Decorating

Play Around With It

Keep playing around with the decor in your room.  This is what is known as “faffing”.  Faffing really means to spend time on a ineffectual activity (an activity that does not produce a significant result).  But I’m here to tell you that faffing is not only therapeutic, you will have amazing moments of clarity, where suddenly the perfect arrangement comes to you bringing a significant amount of personal satisfaction.  So “faff” away.

I really hope you have enjoyed this series on How to Create a Decorating Plan for your Home.  I’d love to know what you thought, and if there are any other questions you have.  Please leave a comment on the blog or social media, or send me an email.  I’d love to hear from you.

Can I ask a favour?  If you haven’t already done so I’d really appreciate if you could share this blog series.  I really think it will be a great help to people who find decorating a real challenge.

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